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Give, Grow, Gain: The True Value of Mentorship

Give, Grow, Gain: The True Value of Mentorship

September 5, 2025
David Snow

Being a mentor is valuable for both the mentor and the mentee. Both parties will be enriched by the experience. Benefits for the mentor include:

  • Giving back – By sharing your knowledge, skills and experiences,  you are contributing to the growth of the mentee and thereby contributing to the profession, community or organization by preparing the next generation.
  • Personal fulfillment – Watching someone succeed because of your guidance is rewarding and builds a sense of purpose and meaning beyond one’s own career achievements.
  • Strengthening your own skills – Teaching and explaining concepts sharpens your own knowledge.
  • Fresh perspectives – Mentees often bring new ideas, energy and insights that can broaden your own thinking. It helps you to keep current with emerging trends and generational perspectives.
  • Legacy and impact – A good mentor will leave a lasting mark on the mentee’s life and career. Your lessons, values and expertise will continue to influence others via the mentee.

Quality mentoring isn’t just about teaching someone else – it is about growing together, giving back and creating impact. 

To develop a quality mentor-mentee relationship, the mentor should:

  • Listen actively – Pay attention to your mentee’s needs, goals and concerns.
  • Establish clear goals – Help your mentee identify their career aspirations and set achievable objectives.
  • Share professional insights – Offer valuable perspectives about the field, trends and future opportunities.
  • Model professional behavior – Demonstrate professionalism, integrity and work ethic for your mentee to emulate.
  • Provide practical advice – Share tips on career development, networking, skill-building and navigating organizational culture.
  • Encourage skill development – Recommend resources, training or projects that can enhance the mentee’s expertise.
  • Offer constructive feedback – Guide improvement while maintaining confidence and motivation. 
  • Support work-life balance – Advise on managing workload, stress and maintaining personal well-being.
  • Keep learning – Stay open-minded, continuously improving mentoring skills and adapting to the mentee’s needs.

Ultimately, a quality mentor-mentee relationship is truly a win-win that will have a lasting value not only for the individuals involved but for the profession and the broader community.

For a look at mentoring from a mentee’s perspective, click here to read “Selecting a Mentor.”

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

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David Snow

David brings more than four decades of experience in executive and development leadership in healthcare, education and social services. He is an expert in annual support campaigns and endowment development strategy, with the unique perspective of a staff member, a volunteer and a major donor. Most recently, David served as chief development officer of the YMCA of Greater Houston for 10 years, doubling its annual campaign to nearly $8 million, significantly growing the endowment and leading $50 million in capital campaigns. He previously led institutional advancement at The Dominican Campus (Aquinas College, St. Cecilia Academy and Overbrook School) in Nashville, Tennessee, where he led three successful capital campaigns to fund campus expansions. Prior to his development career, David was a healthcare executive for more than 20 years, during which time he was involved as a volunteer on a number of nonprofit boards and deeply involved in their fundraising efforts. David currently serves on the board of John Paul II Preparatory School, the Advancement Committee for Aquinas College and the Development Committee of the Diocese of Nashville. He currently serves on the capital campaign cabinet of YMCA Blue Ridge Assembly, Black Mountain, NC. David is a graduate of Indiana University. David’s favorite quote: “The results of philanthropy are always beyond calculation.” —Mary Ritter Beard